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I know how you are feeling at the moment as my ex keeps on harassomg myself as well she keeps on threatening me with the police all the time saying i am harassing by keep ringing her but she is doing exactly the same and its always over my son who is 24 and has fallen out with me now because we keep having words all the time.can someone kind enough on here help me please because if its true what she is doing and getting the police involved because she says to me that she is talking to a police liason officer will they come and arrest me and will they caution me or will they charge me because i am so worried at the moment.thank you
Hi there
I've moved your statement into its own thread, it's not a good idea to tag onto older posts as it tends to get overlooked.
The best advice I can give is to stop all communication with your ex, it's very easy to get an injunction against someone, even a few unwanted telephone calls can be enough.
If she has made a complaint to the police they may decide to come and talk to you about it, if it's just over unwanted telephone calls, they would probably tell you to stop it and make no further contact with her and there would be nothing on record.
They could issue you with a PIN notice, which is a record that they talked to you and instructed you to stop, this would go on record.
Worse case scenario you could be issued with an injunction, it you would be given an opportunity to contest it in court and try and get it set aside. It's a civil matter, not a criminal matter, but if you were to be be given annjunction and ignored it, then it would become a criminal matter and you could get punished.
At this point I would try not to worry, she may just be trying to scare you...best thing to do is just to leave her be and try and sort it out with your son directly.
Best of luck
why do you need to talk to her at all about your son? I would cut all communications altogether with her.
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