[Solved] DONT BACK DOWN.

Hi Crocs,

Well done, don't take the [censored] from them... Alot of LIP get played and are expected to roll over - my ex was represented, and even turned with a barrister at the final hearing. At the end of the day, whilst it may feel as though you are perhaps "being awkward", in reality you are defending your children and their rights. Keep that at the forefront of your mind. It sounds as though the Ex is focusing on what is perhaps better or easier for him, you just keep doing what you're doing, and make sure the kids get what the need and deserve 🙂

With regards to what Missing_Him said, my entire case was heard by District Judges and completed in chambers rather than the courtroom itself. I'm not sure why it was done this way, but I am of the opinion (from my experience) that it was very beneficial. The entire case was dealt with by 2 District judges, which meant that when it came to later hearings, whichever Judge was presiding was almost up to speed with the case, and understood what had happened previously, what her solicitor had said or done, etc etc.

I think that this aided me as a LIP in dealing with the situation, and getting the outcome I did.

I don't know if you can request it be heard by a DJ rather than a bench of Magistrates? but if it's possible, i'd definitely consider it!

All the best,
BD.

Thank you badger.
I'm going to look into this.

Does anyone know why my statement has to be filed nearly two weeks before his?
I feel like he's getting the heads up!!

Hi Crocs, well done

You can't request a change of judge. The court decides which level the case is to be heard in.

As you are contesting, you have to submit your statement first and then he has to respond to it.

You can use the current PS and expand on it, adding in what was discussed at the hearing and your oppositions to this.

Glad having the MF with you helped and well done for sticking to your guns....

It might be prudent to prepare some questions in case you have to cross examine the ex. These should be based on and refer to, the contents of his statement. Your MF should be able to help you do this. I have some examples and you know how to get hold of me if you need some.

You may also benefit from preparing a closing submission.

🙂

Thanks!
I honestly would have caved if it wasn't for all the help and support I've gotten from here. At the end of the day, what kind of parent would I be if I didn't question the safety concerns!?

Well done Crocs! It's amazing what we can achieve when it involves the safety of our kids! 🙂