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Thanks 1626, Yeah I will never give up the fight, I'm really on one now the courts are going in my favour, I'm keeping up the battle full on until I get proper decent access to see my Girl my trips to ibiza dj'ing have given me my fight back big time I still can't believe it as it's always been my dream to play out there so some good has come out of all this crab plus I've gave up the weed 🙂
It seems I am making quite a name for myself out there so I'm laying good foundations for next season when I will really tear the place a new one 😉 I can't wait until my Girl is old enough to come with me I've got friends all over the world through dj'ing and they all want to meet her so she will never be short of places to go on holiday, mum, dad, grandad, uncle are all dj's so she'll have it in her blood 🙂
Hideous isn't it? My mates hubby pays soooooo much in maintenance, it's unreal. Also, the mother of his child is a nightmare and puts the child in danger all the time. As bad as our SS are, even they wouldn't allow it. Suppose at least we're a bit better off over here 🙂
I think if the father is just going for contact there after the court the ex should carm down a bit. There are some women out there that would be in a strop that a court has ordered a father to see there kids. And there are some that use kids has weapons. At the moment i am going thought a court case to a order so my 2 kids live with me due to domestic violence. She is not talking to me at all due to the fact i can use what she says in court she says. I haven't seen my 2 kids in 8 months she has removed our tenancy agreement and my landlord did try to make me homeless but a court stopped them. I know that if i accept normal visiting order after the court she would start to talk to me.But with some fathers like me when there is violence you need to try and do your best to get your kids away from the violence and when you are both going for full and your both bashing your heads together there is no chilling out i guess? :p
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