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Thank you for your replay Bill337 .
I can see you're very involve on this forum.
This is little story to what happened.
Before my cross undertaking expired I've been thinking for a while if my daughter still go to same school.
my ex denied me any access or information ,text me daughter doesn't wanna see me (I knew it was a lie ) at the same time pictures herself that she got nothing against visitation .Once court decision was cleared and she doesn't filed for extension I wanted to see how my child feels about me.
it was the only way at the time to see her true self and to show I think about her.
before mainly I looked after her , we had very strong bond.
To be on a safe side from any future accusations,I turned record on my phone,placing on the table in mcd
From first sec to last I didn't manipulate anything, when daughter tried say something about her mom I answered ok.
it was like you said 100% child focus.
I ask how she was and let her express herself .She was very excited to see me .sat next to me even hug me.
I know judges don't like when kids are recorded but what else I could do to protect myself.
Some time later as expected she accused me for attempt to kidnap my child and take her away from the country.:whistle: :whistle:
Funny thing on voice record it shows ,it was quality time with each other.Also I mentioned very clear that meeting was unexpected ,it's better we don't stay too long.She has other plans.
Man after so long and many doubts if she still loves me this gave me some boost to know that
nothing stands between us.All she acted strangely just after separation and all ex lies it was just to put me down.
After that day, my ex let her call me few times.Now I'm back in court room dealing with previous allegation.
I know ex pushing her luck but it may backfire her.
for me? I just won't gain anything and everything stay the same.
Thanks for post Bill.
My recording doesn’t contain my child just the adults. One of which states contact only takes place because they have to.
Contact doesn’t take place, I start enforcement proceedings and then lots of false allegations from daughter.
The recording just shows they have been against contact before all of this flared up.
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