[Solved] Daughter supposedly refusing to see me.

Yeah that’s pretty much all the judge said last time but I am fighting and I have a barrister for the final hearing.

I supplied my daughter with a brand new iPhone and contract but it was constantly switched off and she’s never once been allowed to bring her mobile phone here.

Ok quick update here.

We was meant to be at court last month but I managed to get the judge to it to a longer hearing to allow more time, I was also granted permission to file witness statements (ex supplied one from her mother! No surprise)

I’m not able to afford a barrister now so I am currently going to be doing this myself.

I complained to social services as the social care report was so one sided and no history was provided by me so everything my ex says looks true. The same is also true for the s7 but during this one she did interview me and refused to look at any evidence I had brought with me.

The complaint has basically said they are sorry and my information should have been in the social care report and I should have had a chance to speak and say my bit. They’re going to add my information to it. I am hoping I can then make a request to the court and have the s7 challenged or thrown out as it has no background from me and she refused to look at my evidence! I’m hoping the proof she has made mistakes on the first report shows she is biased or had already made her mind up about the situation.

I also have a covert recording that shows her mother being abusive to me and she also states they only let me see my daughter because they have to...
I’m thinking about asking permission to transcribe and file this recording.

Any thoughts?

Hi
I can't believe most of these situation are carbon copy.Same tricks played again and again.
I feel extremely jealous of you that you at least have anything to go forward with your case.my steps feel like backward .Just delays ,delays and more delays.These people taking big money but can't
do a simple job.I know they doing it to buy time but the silly excuses they give it's unbelievable. last time my ex translator just before going in to court room
she did lay on the floor with a huge fake chest pain .She was dismissed and proceedings couldn't carry forward ,now judge want to go back to 30 months ago why there was dv even if we took cross undertaking and never trouble my ex or my child .I have video recording that me and my child had good bond together but ex says my girl she is scared of me and judges denied me supervised telephone communication with her.Anything keeps me hope ?they all need that paycheck

hi,

you should avoid any audio/video recordings that involve kids. it can easily backfire on you, and courts/cafcass could accuse you of staging it and manipulating kids. during section 7 process, you have to stay 100% focused on kids. dont let your ex sidetrack you with their bs. i didn't bother challenge some of the silly things they wrote in my report, as overall the report was in my favour and made decent recommendations.

Thank you for your replay Bill337 .
I can see you're very involve on this forum.
This is little story to what happened.
Before my cross undertaking expired I've been thinking for a while if my daughter still go to same school.
my ex denied me any access or information ,text me daughter doesn't wanna see me (I knew it was a lie ) at the same time pictures herself that she got nothing against visitation .Once court decision was cleared and she doesn't filed for extension I wanted to see how my child feels about me.
it was the only way at the time to see her true self and to show I think about her.
before mainly I looked after her , we had very strong bond.
To be on a safe side from any future accusations,I turned record on my phone,placing on the table in mcd
From first sec to last I didn't manipulate anything, when daughter tried say something about her mom I answered ok.
it was like you said 100% child focus.
I ask how she was and let her express herself .She was very excited to see me .sat next to me even hug me.
I know judges don't like when kids are recorded but what else I could do to protect myself.
Some time later as expected she accused me for attempt to kidnap my child and take her away from the country.:whistle: :whistle:
Funny thing on voice record it shows ,it was quality time with each other.Also I mentioned very clear that meeting was unexpected ,it's better we don't stay too long.She has other plans.

Man after so long and many doubts if she still loves me this gave me some boost to know that
nothing stands between us.All she acted strangely just after separation and all ex lies it was just to put me down.
After that day, my ex let her call me few times.Now I'm back in court room dealing with previous allegation.
I know ex pushing her luck but it may backfire her.
for me? I just won't gain anything and everything stay the same.

Thanks for post Bill.

My recording doesn’t contain my child just the adults. One of which states contact only takes place because they have to.
Contact doesn’t take place, I start enforcement proceedings and then lots of false allegations from daughter.

The recording just shows they have been against contact before all of this flared up.