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great starting to feel abit better.
so i can say she attacked me with a knife which was reported not the first time 2 accounts of that.
she smokes
goes out every weekend.
stays in bed most the day
said to the child i cant fu..... wait till you move out with your dad
turned one of my daughters against me
made my son walk to school when he didnt want to.
etc etc
Sorry for the delay in responding, been preoccupied with my own situation.
Stick to stuff you can prove and stay child focussed, why it's in the best interests of the child or why it's not
The fact that the ex, smokes, drinks, goes out drinking, stays in bed all day, makes your child walk to school, all that will sound like you're just slagging her off...unless you can show it as it is a risk of harm to your child.
Swearing at children is not acceptable to me but unfortunately some see it as the norm and how they bring their kids up...my next door neighbour thinks it's funny that her 5yr old child punched another kid and then called the kid a stupid c*nt when the teacher asked him why he'd done it
steer clear of what will sound like you slagging off, it'll just been seen as you being bitter.
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