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Hi I need help :boohoo: I feelas though I am banging my head against a brick wall as usual with the CSA. My son has reached 19yr in July this year, so I have actually finished paying CSA. But at the same time I have just found out that he has been into the Army for nearly a year and my ex hasn’t told anyone about that i.e. Benefits. She has been getting child benefit all this time also CSA payments from me. I have informed the CSA of this and they have said they can’t investigate as they can only go on the fact that she is receiving child benefit. I have told benefit fraud as well. CSA are now saying that they may not be told even if it is proved that she has defrauded benefit. What can I do to get my money back if nearly £5k that's owed. The CSA seem to be able to do all sorts against me but nothing to prove I’m Wright. Anyone got any ideas please.
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