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Hi,
My ex-wife and I have been through court and the following happened.
The court stated that I should pay child maintenance to my ex-wife and an amount was stipulated. The figure was very high and unfair.
I work in another country part-time but have access to my children in the UK every week.
Her barrister convinced the court that a court order should be made because the CSA couldn't assess me - this was done in the final hearing and so I had no opportunity to contact the CSA.
I objected to this and was then told by the court to ask if I could be assessed. I contacted the CSA who listened to my details and then said that there was no problem.
They then assessed my case and came up with a figure that is half of the court's figure.
So my questions are:
Can the court decide a figure for child maintenance without first passing it to the CSA?
Surely the court should only make a decision if the CSA can't.
Why would the two figures be so far apart? Both were given the same information about my pay.
What can I now do (apart from starting a costly appeal)?
I feel that I have been unfairly treated - now her barrister won't accept the CSA calculation as she has a court order.
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