[Solved] Contact stopped AGAIN!

Hi There all, its been a while since I have posted as I actually thought that once I got a Child Arrangements Order nearly 18 months ago things may actually calm down.

It turns out that is not the case for me and my little ones. My Ex has somewhat lost focus from when we split and even though we both went on the SPIP parenting course she did not use anything that could have helped my 2 girls transition a little better.

Since the Order, my girls took to my girlfriend so very well, they love coming over to ours (my girls are mature 6 and 9 YO), I have them every other weekend from Friday evening until Sunday evening, one night in the week I do not have them, and 50% of all school holidays, plus share birthdays etc

As I said we are 18 months in, without any drama from my weekends, the girls actually still cry alot at the end of the weekend as they do not want to leave, it really is heartbreaking. On my last weekend a month or so ago, my 9 year old wanted to take her sister out into our secure Cul de Sac on their on to play Pokemon Go, which is fine, we all know everyone in on little cul de sac and they is around 6 other children the same ages as mine, they all get all so nicely. Our Cul de sac is also located in a newish housing estate, which has no main roads and a 15 mph limit around it. The girls wanted to go a little bit further afield, they've been asking for months but im pretty over protective and even though all the other children are allowed ive never given in. Until this weekend, I risk assessed the situation, I said they had to be back in 15-20 mins, we were both tracking their phones, and I set limits as per the NSPCC's Risk assessment leaflet. The kids went out, and I noticed the gps was nearing our local park (which I told the 9 year old not to go to) So I FaceTimed her, and said that they should turn around as she had gone against the agreement, 2 mins after that she then called back to say her sister was tired (she has Type 1 diabetes) so I jumped in the car and was with them in roughly 30 seconds. She wasn't low or in danger and I thought my 9 year old did as she should have, she thought there was a problem and called for help.

2 weeks later an hour before the next contact weekend pickup time I got an email stating that my ex thought the children were in danger and is stopping contact citing this as Safeguarding.

I have not heard a peep from her in 5 weeks with next steps, even though I explained the above and even attached a copy of the NSPCC leaflet, telling her that when the children were in my care I make decisions on what they can and can not do, within reason and vice versa when she has them in her care. She leaves them both to go and collect fast food and is gone 20-30 mins, she leaves one on their own whilst taking the other to clubs, I dont see the difference too much.

My ex has an issue that ive moved on, its been 3.5 years since breakup up and she uses the 9 year old as a confident in CSA matters, her romantic life, even serious medical stuff which really upsets my 9 year old, even though ive raised it, it does not stop. All other side of the family talk about the issues in front of the children whereas the children know all we do at mine is have fun.

What makes this worse is that it was my 9 year old that FaceTimed me after I sent the explanation email to tell me that I won't be seeing her for a while, she was it bits and angry at her mother (of course I recorded it) all I said was that this is something she should not be worrying about and I will see her soon and we love them both so much.....Her mother was aware of this call, even given permission for here to make this call.

Now, yes I let the children out alone, in a secure place/area, yes they went slightly off beat but did the correct thing in the end, and still were not gone long. I still believe it is a small thing. What can I do to get my children back? I have tried communicating to get things sorted but she hasn't responded and won't, with my little girl saying it is because of this little walk they had. I guess enforcing the court order Is next? anyone ever done it? I spent over a year in court winning my kids back the first time, I hate the thought of it again.

Do you think I was wrong letting them out, like my neighbours do to their kids, in a neighbourhood they know and is blocked from all main roads?

Even though ive been told I can let them do things whilst in my care, will a judge see it this way? I just want to get my children back asap as they are already suffering again due to the no contact thing, My ex has done this before and suddenly changed her mind.

I hope someone can offer some king of advice that could help this horrible situation for the children,

Thanks for listening, if you need more info just ask as I have left things out that her side have been doing as I believe this is purely about this one issue.

Me. (I attach the NSPCC leaflet)

P.S. I forgot to mention, after letting me know contact was stopping, I found out she had already ripped the children from School (lunchtime) and taken them to Butlins, the School even contacted me on the Monday as they were worried about the girls as neither had showed up for School on the Monday either, they were taken back Tuesday. In the order, im supposed to be told if the children have medical issues, school issues, aren't going to school, if they are being taken away somewhere etc etc.....All just ignored.