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Ok i am not sure why you are applying to the courts. U have your child tell your ex to take you to family court. U are safeguarding as you have serious concerns . You can higlight these and tell her to contact social services. You have same right as she has
Ok i am not sure why you are applying to the courts. U have your child tell your ex to take you to family court. U are safeguarding as you have serious concerns . You can higlight these and tell her to contact social services. You have same right as she has
I thought the same.. but then she may try to get her back... via the school or some such... and will do the same...
Schools are closed. He already has child in his care. He could phone social services and say he has serious concerns and say he is keeping child in his care and his ex can put a court application in. Social services will end up putting child on child in need plan or worse if child stays in mums care due to her issues and her partner ringing them up
I have thought about this too, however SS have told me that assessment will very likely rule no further involvement from them. Which i find absurd but not surprising given how they handled the whole thing. Took them 6!days to visit mum in her home after the initial phone call from her partner. Now he has redacted they do not seem interested in even finding out if he is lying or not.
I was hoping to get the court involved before SS finish their report, also it’s very upsetting for my child as mum rings 2-3 times a day and makes him very upset by pulling on heart strings and saying she’ll be back with her ASAP. Really I want an order as quickly as possible.
Facilitating contact is the next issue as I’m worried she will just take off with her. And keep her. SS refused my request for supervised contact but heavily advised that I do allow contact as they see no immediate concerns with mum.
You are right about school though, seems as though the lockdown has worked slightly in my favour in this instance.
How many days have you had your daughter since she was meant to return to mums house?
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