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I applied for a direct contact Order for my three (3) children because their mother refused contact.
I have been in court for the last two (2) years. My case was been handled by a solicitor until I could not afford to pay them any more since I am unemployed and unable to get legal aid due to my immigration status. I have been a litigant in person since then.
I have attended court about 10 times and had interview with cafcass twice since the start of the contact proceedings.
the last time I attended court was on 2nd July 2013. At the hearing no date was mentioned due to non availability of cafcass officer.
However, I was shocked to receive an Order from the court on Saturday 19th October 2013 saying my application has been dismissed because of non attendance. It was ordered that I have indirect contact with my children inform of letters and cards.The fact is that I did not receive a notice of hearing in the post.
I have contacted the court, but nobody can confirm to me that a notice was sent out rather I was told to write to the court ask permission to apply for the decision to be set aside. I have done that yesterday.
Please, kindly advice me on what steps to take. I love my kids and miss them so much I will never give up on them.
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