[Solved] Changing allegations

A little update, for some reason I am unable to log in on my other account hence the name.

Anyway since the last hearing back in Feb I have been arrested again and again released with NFA. This has now lead to the police being investigated due to the fact CCTV was used to arrest me for harassment and breach of the order.
After another 12 hours in the cells and another hour of questioning, I'm released with NFA being taken.

a few weeks later I'm back in court as she wanted to change the order as it is atm. The judge told her that the orders she is asking for two he will not give, Not much was changed from the order as it stood.
I went to hand in the C2 and c100 form regarding contact to be told to send it in rather than hand it in on the day. Although she objected to applying the judge did say I have very good grounds to apply.

The police complaints and misconduct unit have sent a letter excepting my complaint is valid and a full investigation is in place. my complaint was police assisting her in harassing me, unlawful arrest and unlawfull detention, along with a few more the inspector pointed out. Its got very messy within the police station and she is being investigated herself now due to allegations being proven to be false or fabricated.

She has since made more allegations, this time police didn't arrest me but did take a statement from someone who was there at the time. This is a friend of mine that she turned up at there house while I was there.

Im now told the next hearing is not going to be in June but now Sept time. I am in the process of applying for the order to be dismissed as she or the police havnt produced what was asked for by the first Judge.

I dont mind defending all this but I feel all the time the ex parte order is in place rather than a with notice NMO she is going to continue to get me arrested and the police assisting her in everyway.

I would have thought they would be far more careful now that there's an official complaint going through the channels.

Might it be a good idea to write to the court, addressing the judge that made the ex parte and explain the new developments with the complaint, and the fact that she has made false allegations, now proven?

The police seem to have backed off a bit hence they investigated her complaint first rather than arrest and detain me. But still, she feels they were trying to put words into her mouth for which she made the officer rewrite the statement as she wasn't happy with what was written down at first.

Fair play to the inspector dealing with the police complaint as it was him that wasn't happy with how his officers have been dealing with all the complaints from her. One he was concerned about was the fact the ex-said in court that the police have disclosed information about me regarding an allegation of me kidnapping my own child 20 years ago by my ex-wife. My ex-wife has made a statement saying no such allegation was made and my medical records will prove I was in intensive care at the time. Not saying an allegation by the ex-wife wasn't made it was, but regarding another family member.

Not sure how many times I have to prove her allegations have been false or totally fabricated to the police and the courts. She has even admitted this to the court on the first hearing by totally agreeing to my reply to her ex-parte statement.

On the second hearing when i pointed out the judge had asked for the statement off the police to back the kidnapping allegations the ex said its totally irrelevant now.

When the judge asked for a police disclosure I explained that it should have been submitted end of March, But the judge said the case cant go further untill the police disclosure is in hand. Also she asked for another witness and again this was granted.

The problem I have now is all this is now accuring costs, the judge told us both to look into getting a solicitor as questioning each other is going to be difficult with the screen up ect. Both of us cant afford a solicitor so the Judge said I have to send her all the questions I wish to put to her. All the questions I have she has already answered with "irrelevant now"

I again have spoken to the courts, explained everything and the lady went to speak to the Judge, She called me to say the judge said as she wont except an undertaking theres nothing he can do and again said about the police disclosure being required. But I can apply to vary the order concerning the order regarding the child or apply to get the case dismissed.

The undertaking Iv offered is basiclly what she is asking for including her boy friend but excluding the no communication with the child. It's more than the judge said he can order.
If the judge cant see this is all about a child continuing to have contact with me and she is using the police and courts to prevent this then theres no hope what so ever.

so far.
1st hearing fully agrees with my reply of a non abusive violent relationship and I have given her no reason to be of concern, only concern she has is regarding what the police informed her.

4 arrests and each time released with NFA being taken.

2nd hearing- I dropped an easter egg off in the garden, proven no court order was broken (CCTV used as evidence)
I was building a snowman with my friend's disabled son (CCTV as evidence)
I returned a ladder to her friend after the friend asked for it back, (Because we crossed paths on returning the ladder she claimed harassment) Although the friend of hers made a statement saying she did ask for it back and it was all arranged by the friend to return it. The statement the friend gave wasn't used in interview and I was only questioned because I brought the subject up. But in the ex's statement to the courts the ex gave a total different account on what happened that day but with no statement to back her claims up.