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Quick question...
My ex wife has just moved house (Friday) and to date has not informed me of the change of address... I have shared custody and again she is clearly using this as a 'power' thing over me.
I am sure she has a legal obligation to tell me where she has moved to..but is there a time limit..
I would have assumed, as I did when I moved,, that the other parent should be notified straight away?
Am I being unreasonable?
Walshy?
There's isn't a time limit, but I would assume that common courtesy would dictate that you are kept in the loop! If you have shared care, then there's absolutely no reason why you shouldn't be informed, where do handovers take place usually?
Thanks ...common courtesy doesn't come into play with her I am afraid..she waits for me to embark on legal action (therefore incurring me costs) at each and every opportunity
we have a 4 on 4 off rota...if it falls on a school day...she might drop them to school...and I collect ..and vice versa..We do have to drop off books/clothes etc..later that evening...
I would have thought with that rota she's going to have to reveal her address. If she won't, your first step is mediation, but you could try a solicitors letter to her to try and avoid court action.
All the best
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