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Hi
A bit of a long shot I'm finding it surprisingly hard to get a answer on this one.
My daughter is 3 me and mum broke up about a year ago and until recently everything was fantastic we got along for our daughters sake ,no arguments or disagreements.
Mum and daughter now live in a house with mums sister a good arrangement that works as auntie is wonderful with daughter.
Auntie is recently engaged and I have recently found out her partner is on the [censored] offenders list after commiting a violent [censored] oriented crime for which he pleaded guilty and was imprisoned for 3 years he was released 6 month ago after serving half his sentence.
I have made social services aware and there have stated he can not be unsupervised with daughter. I personally don't think this is enough of that mum and auntie will respect there decision.
Is there any way I can stop him from seeing daughter completely.
I can not go for residency so that is not a option .
Hi
It's a tricky one if your ex lives there, as a court wouldn't be able to order the auntie not to have certain people in her property, they can only make orders for people who are party to proceedings which would be you and your ex which would in effect duplicate the advice of CS into an order. If your ex was to breach an order in that respect, you could take it back to court for enforcement of the order.
Hopefully your ex would not want to have your daughter come into contact with this person, let alone knows leave her unsupervised. Is she not planning to get a place of her own at all?
I have deleted your duplicate thread so your replies are kept in one thread.
It's weird because my X and her sister have a joint tenancy on the property.
My X and her sister have known about this since he was in prison I was told he was in prison for assault , I.e a fight with another bloke outside a nightclub it was only when the social services said he can't have unsupervised contact that I started to question it.
The social workers wouldn't even tell me what he had done I had to ask a friend whom works for the metropolitan police to look into it for me.
Thanks for deleting duplicate I tried but couldn't figure it out after I realised I posted in wrong category
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