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Hello I seem to be going through the same thing I have my son every other weekend in line with the court order. Recently I recieved a text from his mother saying all contact is stopped I asked why but there was no response. A week later I was contacted by social services and just after that the police arrested me as my son and his mother are claiming that I physically abused him.there is no evidence and I would appreciate any advice
@logical60 I suggest you contact Dad's Unlimited which may be able to help you through the process. Website is dadsunltd.org.uk and there is a helpline
hi,
sorry to hear. sounds like you need to take this back to court. could use C2 form to seek urgent hearing, as mother suspended contact, claiming there is risk of harm.
Hi guys, just an update on this.
Cafcass confirmed the points in the OP, in interviews with my child, but absolutely nothing was done about it.
Now I've had time to reflect, I don't know what I expected could be done, as the court can't police someone's words or actions, other than ensuring they make the child available for contact, which they've done.
I'm sure this is not what others are hoping to hear, as we all know it's wrong and incredibly damaging for our children. Only thing we can do is be the best dad we can be when our children are with us to help them deal with the other parents shortcomings.
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