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As I have been representing myself for the last 5 years or so, I have had a couple of friends recently ask me to go to court with them and help them with their cases.
As far as I know, there are no qualifications needed... but just thought I'd ask you guys for any tips you may have.
Hi there
You're right, no qualifications needed. Unfortunately MFs are an unregulated body and anyone can set themselves up as one.
Most MFs come to it having represented themselves, it's surprising what you learn having been involved!
It's a big responsibility, having someone's future with their children in your hands, as long as you realise that and are clear about your abilities the I see no reason why you can't help your friends
They would need to seek permission from the court by letter. The letter should contain details of who you are, any experience you have had and the fact that you are respectful of the need for absolute confidentiality. A sentence about not having a personal interest in the case can also be included.
You won't be able to speak for your friend unless you have asked for a right of audience in the letter. Sometimes they will allow it, sometimes not, it depends on the judge.
Your role would be to sit in on any pre hearing discussions with the other side/CAFCASS etc, to take notes in court and quietly prompt if something has been overlooked....post it's are a good idea!
It might be advisable to research the role of MFs beforehand, just so that you are aware...best of luck!
Your right NJ you certainly do learn a lot through this process, patience being the main thing! Once my case is finished i'm going to look into being a MF, i'm determined that something positive comes out of this and I would like to be able to offer others help and support. I have a solicitor but they are not interested in talking to me about my feelings etc, I feel if I was to become a MF I would also be able to offer that support that solicitors don't really give you. When going through a court process I find it helps if there is someone to talk to who has been through it.
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