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HI again
Sorry due to this stress i am going through i forget many things .yesterday the cort also asked me that am i happy for children to live with their mom then i asked for example if something happens to her what will be about children then the judge said they will go to my ex,s family.she also asked me i want primary care or not but i didnt know what is a primary cate so she gave me sometime to respond on it.can anyone tell what are the difrent levels of care?All i want if my ex leaves them then i should be able to get custody.
Sorry i am taking ur more time
Thnx
Hopefully someone will pop on with some advice, but I think it would be a good idea to contact the corams children's legal centre - their legal advice is free, as long as you don't have a solicitor.
www.childrenslegalcentre.com
If you were to ask to become primary carer if something happened to their mother, it means the children should live with you, not the ex's family.
You can make the point that your children need to be allowed to develop a close relationship with you, which can't happen if you are only able to contact them indirectly.
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