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I have spoken to NACCC. They advised the nearest centres are over 1 hour away and if the court do order contact at a contact centre, the EX will have to take the child (which wont happen).
They did say "if SS are involved" (which I am sure they are not), then they can make special circumstances for supervised contact (if this is ordered).
I have to say the lady at NACCC was really helpful and understanding, and prompted us to inform the court that we have looked into centres, and it may not be in the childs best interest to travel that far at a young age, so to ask if a family member would be able to supervise/support the contact.
It seems there is a big difference between supported and supervised contact, which is confusing me?
Will keep you updated... Just investigating all options.
Whilst NACCC have quite a monopoly on centres nationally, there are groups that work independently of them, for instance a local church in my locality offers the service.
Supervised contact is where the sessions are monitored by a dedicated support worker, who will be making notes and providing written reports. It’s a one to one situation.
And is used where there’s been no contact for a prolonged period of time, or where there have been allegations made and perceived safeguarding concerns.
Supported contact is more informal and takes place in a group setting, with other families, there’s no written report done, it’s just a safe place to go.
I didn't realise, the centres could be NON NACCC. what do i search for (google).... to find a independent centre.
Just child contact centres in your area... as I said, SS may have a list, or the CAB might also be able to advise.
Spoken to SS and CAB. No child contact centres in my area.
SS said, if the child was KNOWN to SS and the court need SS involved, a local centre can rent out a room to SS to supervise contact.
so looks like it will be 1 hour drive, if this is ordered.
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