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What's your views?
We've received email from Mother's Solicitor advising they are making a request to the Judge to meet with the child on the morning of the final hearing. We know this is so he will say to the judge that he does not want to see Dad or live with him. My Partner has objected in view that it would be too traumatic for the child as well as upsetting.
The Mother has already had the child write 2 letters to the Judge in the past (which made no difference as far as we can see) so we expected her to turn up with either another letter or the child because she is adamant she is not 'hiding behind the child'.
I guess it depends on how much you trust the judge. My man’s judge is a little on the weak side so I know he would object. I can’t imagine the solicitor is pushing it for any other reason than to benefit the ex in some way. I hope your judge is strong and makes the right decision.
Harli
Its amazing the lengths she's prepared to go to 'get her way'. Push the kid in front of the judge and make him say "I don't want to see my Dad or live with him". I know the poor kid will be terrified of seeing his Dad because he really loves him and he must know that what he says is hurting his Dad but he has to do what his mother wants. Its all so very very sad.
Nothing surprises me Lollyrus. His ex is currently trying to show the court she’s full of remorse and is happy to let him see the children now. I hope and pray this judge finally punishes her for what she’s done. She is in no way a fit or decent mother, she’s evil. I hope your judge does the right thing, that poor little boy can’t be left with that woman, what sort of man will he grow up to be??
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