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Not really, if the order is defined as you say, she must adhere to it. If she wants it changed she must apply to have the existing order varied. If she doesn’t abide by the order, she will be in breach and enforcement can be applied for.
Perhaps another letter pointing this out to her, if you wanted it to be more official you could pay to have a solicitors letter sent to her, to remind her of the courts stance on this and the possible penalties if enforcement is applied in the event of a breach.
If you have issue with the mother supervising contact because of her abuse, you can still make an urgent application using the C2 form as the court advised. You would be asking for contact to be supervised in a contact centre for the rest of the time, until unsupervised contact kicks in, or you can suggest a neutral family member or family friend to supervise visits.
Also, if handovers haven’t been specified in the order, once contact doesn’t have to be supervised any longer, you might want to have that addresssed too, perhaps suggesting they take place in a public place for your own safety, and hers too.
Have you heard from the police about any action they’re taking?
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