[Solved] BBR/DVPP course alternative - Important

Hello Gald_dad, that’s excellent news.

It might be difficult to talk to CAFCASS directly, however, there are a number of charities such as Dads Unlimited and Families need Fathers that CAFCASS listen to, and I think they are your best route in. I’ve sent you a PM with contact details.

DVPP courses are biased and non-existent for female perpretators, and the one size fits all approach means thousands of good men end up feeding this industry just because they refuse giving up on their kids. Let’s change this, I’m with you.

Thank,

I am very surprised I have only had one response to this important topic.

I will follow up your private message, thanks!

I was going to respond but have been busy with preparation for a hearing myself this week.

I've been a member of this forum for about 7yrs or so now, i find it an excellent no nosense forum that the contributers and the moderators all give excellent un-biased advice.
what i have exeperienced though is that there are limits to some of the advice where cases such as my own and one or two i've seen posts on over the time become a little above what is available here, when that point comes i head over to the Families Need Fathers forum, however they can be a little slower in responding some times

whilst on there the other week i spotted a post about somehtign similar to what you are talking about here,

Only paid up members can access their forum Dad-i-d. It’s also been suggested that there is a contingent on there that will tout for business and their fees are on the high side.

If you could delete the link that would be appreciated.

Thanks.

I can't see a way to edit the post, i thought it was not letting me do it from my tablet but still can't see an edit post option on the PC either

Have edited the link out.

Hi Glad_dad,

It would be interesting how your barrister argued the case that BRB/DVPP is not suitable for you?

I am in a similar position,

Thanks.

The original post was over a year ago, and he's not been on since I'm afraid.

You could try sending a PM - there is a chance it will email him to say there's a message.

The only way if your lucky to avoid going on a DVPP if they are thinking about it is to calmly suggest alternatives in hope they change their mind.
Parenting course and a separated parenting programme as very good lesser alternatives. easy to complete and believe it or not actually enjoyable and family courts love dads that do them especially unprompted.

Once its ordered though you haven't much choice to do it otherwise they wont let you see children.

If you come across calm/child focused and not showing things they are looking for you may be able to talk your way out of it