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Hi,
Im in the process of submitting a C100 and looking for some specific advice on what information to give and how detailed I can be. I was hoping to explain the full situation to someone and get guidance. Is there anyone on this forum that would be kind enough to help or could you recommend a similar service. Thanks in advance.
Hi
Please keep the C100 very brief. There is always a tendency to want to tell the court everything. All they need to know is something simple such as;
Previously we had an alternate weekend arrangement in place. The mother has stopped any contact taking place, saying the child does not want to see me.
Despite concerted efforts on my part over a considerable period of time, the mother has refused to engage in mediation and will not support contact in any way.
I am seeking an order in order that our child has the security and routine of a stable arrangement for contact with me so that we are able to have a meaningful relationship.
You need to keep it brief and you can prepare a very short (no longer than 2 pages) position statement to take to the first hearing to let the court know what you would like them to do.
Very little usually happens at the first hearing unless the court can get you both to agree.
You and your ex should have a Cafcass telephone interview before the hearing and they will provide the court with a transcript of the interviews and give their recommendations. Stay child focused, speak from the child's point of view and try to avoid bad mouthing the mother - just be factual and talk about the impact of any of her actions on the child. Remember the rights are of the child - not the parents.
Thank you for the information. I will follow your advice.
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