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Call the court where the order was issued and query it, but I sure they will tell you that it has one attached.
As for having a solicitor, that's really up to you. You could always use a McKenzie Friend as well. If you're going to self rep then make sure you document everything regarding the breaches.....
Hi There,
I would agree it's the best way to go, especially if she has stopped contact.
I would say don't use a solicitor, take a Mckenzie friend if you feel you need support, I don't think your ex will have a leg to stand on, even "if" you did cut hair that isn't a reason to stop contact. I'm not for a second saying you did, but if that's her reasoning then it would get laughed out of the court room in my oppinion.
GTTS
Thanks for the positive messages times like these are hard for any dad not seeing their son,this is what iv been accused of doing not a reason she stated to stop contact I'm being told when I ask to see him via txt message 'leave me alone' 'take me to court if you want to see him' I will post updates on here as how it all went, think I posted on the first hearing and was quiet happy with the outcome and represented my self
Little update iv got the papers back from court 7days after I sent them off. Iv spoke to my x and she has now said her reason for me not to see my son are 'picking and choosing which day' And also 'he doesn't like spending time with you always crying' - both reasons totally untrue. The court order said that I get one Sunday a month to socialise as I work 6days a week and I gave her a few weeks notice I had plans for a holiday. What are the chances of the court ordering her to to community service? Or most importantly me seeing my son again?
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