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Well, that's me done... Final Hearing has just taken place and even though my ex-wife decided to fork out for a Barrister I've come away from the whole fiasco satisfied. My contact prior, fractionally represented , was no better than 75/25 in my ex-wife's favour (of course). I wanted a 50/50 agreement. I've come out of the process with a 60/40 order (still in her favour). So, not exactly what I hoped for. Nor is the outcome in the absolute best interests of our son, in my opinion. However, if I hadn't instigated this process I'd not be in the better position that I am now so I can only extend my thanks once again to you actd, Mojo and Yoda for all your help, advice, support and encouragement to keep me going to the end. My journey has ended though I intend to keep dropping back periodically in the hope of being helpful to others who may be on the same/similar path to the one I've just taken. Very best regards to you and best of luck to all. Steve
Well done Steve! Maybe not totally what you wanted but you've nearly doubled your contact time and hopefully the mother will now realise that it's better to work together and put your son first.
Look forward to seeing you back here, sharing your experience and advice in the future. All the best to you and your son. π
Good result Steve, and just shows that having a barrister isn't always worth it. WOuld be good to see you back on here sometimes - it always encourages other dads going through the process to see success stories, and it's nice for us moderators also to read happy stories π
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