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Good stuff - amounts to the usual false allegations and I think you just need to demonstrate the lengths she is prepared to go to.
Do you have a handover book or some way of communicating how your child was overnight. Presumably all you would have already stated that he slept and ate well so for her to allege that he hasnt slept well when you know he has is reasonably dismissable.
Anything actually worthwhile in the medical notes then :)?
BW,
....if brought up in court it could be argued that this is a reaction to missing you rather than being upset about going and if he were to see more of you this would settle down. If he was reacting to not wanting to be with you there would be signs of that during the contact and not after.
Yes agreed - its insidious separation anxiety
There were a few interesting parts in the notes, apparently he's been to A&E - I wasn't told. Another time, he was diagnosed with a contagious infection 2 days before I had him for contact - which I wasn't told.
You as a parent with PR should be made aware of medical issues especially those that cause sufficient concern that your child attends accident emergency. Also if you reside with people who may be vulnerable to infections (old or those with chronic disability) she has a moral obligation as a parent to inform you of this in case it is contagious to those around you. Instead she makes false allegations that your child is sick as a consequence of a visit however in fact the child was noted to be sick 2 days prior. An issue to raise as you are not being correctly informed as a loving caring father.
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