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Hi all I have been divorced for over 9 years now and have had contact with my children all that time doing a round trip of 320 miles to collect them in the school holidays they are now 15 and 13 and my ex has told them they must chose between us if they chose her they can have no contact with me or there grandparents I dont no what has happened as up untill august it all worked well the guys have never not wanted to come to me any advice guts ?
I would see if your ex is prepared to go to mediation to see if there is any way you can come to an agreement to continue contact. It does seem to be a very strange thing to come up with suddenly.
Hi There,
I would mirror actd's advice and try and get your ex into mediation to discuss why she feels this way, that is unless you have the sort of relationship where you can meet and talk it through with her.
Darren
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