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Just want some opinions please. Ex never brought our children back last year at the end of the holidays when they should have done. They should have brought them back on a teacher training day. Instead they kept our children a further 3 days! This year, assuming it would be the same for me re it being my week (the last week of the hols) that I was to have them until school, after all it is only far. Ex turned up at my house on Saturday, unexpected. Thankfully we were not there as they were not meant to be there. Several nasty messages were then sent to me basically stating that were there were provisions for them to have our children if it was their turn to have the last week in the holiday's, there was no provision for me! The order only states that were the ex has them at the last wk of the hols, that they can take them to school, surely it means the same for me?
....it should be, but in the strictest terms if it's not mentioned in the order then he may be right, but not morally and if he tried to take this to court he wouldn't get very far in my opinion. Try and rise above it and take no notice, letting him get under your skin about this is a point to him...just ignore it! If it were me I would have a separate phone for his contact and leave it switched off at times like these.
I'm sorry that you are still having trouble with your ex, he seems like a truly odious person.
Thank you for your reply. I do have a phone for our children, it was that that they messaged me on. I have had to have a new mobile number due to them continually calling it. They are already in contempt of court for providing their partner with stuff from court last yr . Their partner tried to use this against me is a 400pg complaint to my company to try and get me sacked. I left them 2009 after a violent relationship, divorced 2010, and still have to put up with their [censored] π
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