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I thought things were going to well, the Contact Centre just phoned and said my ex is not bringing my Daughter because she is too ill, absolutely gutted 🙁
I'm so sorry to hear this Slim, can they re schedule or do you just miss this session? Surely that would go in your favour at the hearing though? Maybe she is genuinely ill as she's turned up for the others? So sorry, last thing you need at the minute 🙁
On reflection I am pleased I don't have to go to that stinking [censored] hole and see them awful staff and miserable ex but obviously I don't get to see my daughter, the centre only run every 2 weeks, that was the last hour session the next one is for 2 hours then one more after that, were back in court the day before the next one in 2 weeks so we shall see.
Every cloud I suppose! Wishing you all the luck in the world for the hearing, you're as prepared as you can be, bundles are ready, you know your case inside & out and know what you're talking about. Let's hope the judges start to move things along for you and you get a good outcome. Not that I condone violence in any shape or form but I would love to shake some sense into your ex and the other parents like her....Sickening. Stay strong, you've come such a long way......
...as you have said before Slim, the judges are seeing through her and actions like this will hopefully illustrate her unreasonable behaviour to all.
She could be teething she's the right age for it and the weather has turned... It might be better to accept the illness story. Then there's less of a reason to get twisted up about it.
Yeah she is teething and she was ill at the last session I've just had it confirmed so fair enough, the cc were like my ex this my ex that she's concerned about contact going to 2 hours so we will be monitoring the next session blah blah blah I felt like saying you witches monitor me at every session anyway I can feel your glare burning into the back of my head like supermans laser eyes you bunch of muppets, but I didn't lol
Feel for you mate.
Had 2 supervised contact sessions with the mother and then the third one which was due to be on my own got the unwell text the night before. Fourth session went great and then I get a text saying my son doesn't want to see me anymore (he's 4) and that there will be no more contact till we are back in court.
All part of the lying, deceitful games, that screws kids heads up.
Hope you get things sorted.
Gutted for you. Keep a diary and write down whenever she cancels. We have had this a few times unfortunately but there is nothing really that can be done.
It's cool we're in court in less than 2 weeks for another review hearing, then there's only 2 more contacts left in that stinking contact centre then contact moves out from there, I'll just say contact has gone great and we've only missed a week due to my girl being Ill
There is an awful bug doing the rounds too, two of mine had it as well as me and Im NEVER ill!
There is an awful bug doing the rounds too, two of mine had it as well as me and Im NEVER ill!
Not long now though eh!
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