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We agree that the psychologist is sitting on the fence. The Guardian (tho she hasn’t said so to us but we’re guessing by the additional questions to the psychologist) was pushing the psychologist to get off the fence and was steering the psychologist to say it is more harmful leaving the child with the Mother.
We only hope and pray that the mother’s continual denial of contact - despite Guardian getting the psychologist to confirm the child is not to make decisions about contact and that is something that the parents decide - leads the Judge to the conclusion that child needs to be moved because that is the only way to ensure contact between the parents happen.
Will keep you posted on the final outcome but we know unless the judge has the courage to ‘take the bull by the horns’ then we’re doomed for more of the same till my Partner throws the towel in.
Thanks guys for all your support. Keep being supportive Harli that’s all we can be to the bitter end.
Hi Lollyrus
I am hoping his judge also has the courage to make a good decision, right now it is hard to tell, she has made a few decisions which have suprised his barrister even. If the children are left with his ex he will never see them, that is a fact, she will not abide by any order served on her, she will never let them know he is their father, she is pure evil. The case has dragged on for long enough now, the children need to be taken from her, she has caused at least one of them serious mental harm, to leave them with her would be failing them all very badly. No one listens to his concerns about their welfare, their previous school had concerns too, and despite various reports to social services they do nothing except praise and support her. It is a few weeks to the hearing that decides his future, Although his barrister is fairly confident years of fighting have left him with no faith whatsover in the court and he cannot help but fear the worst, and if the worst happens I don't know what will happen, he has got nothing left to loose. Right now I am actually scared and I am normally the positive one,
Harli
Harli,
I wish you all the very best and pray to god your Partner and his children get the justice they deserve.
These Mother’s need a very clear message that playing god will not be tolerated and we need the tide to turn. The losers are the children and it will affect them their whole life. I should know, I’m one of them.
Good luck and please update us.
Thank you Lollyrus. I will keep everyone updated.
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