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Hi All,
I have a hearing in January where my former is asking for a lump sum, or transfer of the family home to her.
We are joint owners, not married.
She left 20 months ago and I have kept up all payments and she only now is taking me to court. I offered her half of the equity but she wants me to move out and pay half of the mortgage.
My arguement is that we have broadly similar housing needs and I wouldnt be able to afford to rent or buy if I paid half of the mortgage and so she would try to limit my contact with the children and probably take me back to reduce the contact.
Any advice or guidance out there from anyone in a similar or has been in a similar situation?
Regards,
Dave
no one?
I would get a consultation with a solicitor regarding the equity and your liability. I would say (though not certain about this) that since you aren't married, then there isn't a divorce settlement, so the property will simply be split according to normal property law, and you'll be liable for child maintenance only. That being the case, you could be in a strong position - but as I said, it's worth seeing a solicitor for a chat to confirm (or correct) this.
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