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Hi , I now have a court order I have my daughter on a 50/50 shared car arrangement week on week off. I’m I still liable to be paying maintenance I’m still paying full amount ?
Thanks Mojo I've only just seen these threads..
Hello . MJ7. I think it's been suggested you need to talk to your mortgage provider about going interest only? Are you already interest only or are you on a full repayment mortgage?
You might benefit yourself from some advice via StepChange . just to help prioritise your payments.
You situation is tough but you need to have a divorce settlement to have some clarity with your living arrangements.
Hari - your pension can be included as part of your divorce settlement -= so in some respects she is not being entirely unreasonable. I think the fact she's agreed to mediation is a good sign, keep us posted. It sounds like there is the possibility you could work something out.
Northerner45 Hi , I now have a court order I have my daughter on a 50/50 shared car arrangement week on week off. I’m I still liable to be paying maintenance I’m still paying full amount ?
Can I ask - has this arrangement come in after you agreed maintenance. If your circumstances have changed then I would imagine the maintenance would need to be changed to reflect this?
Can you clarify your question.
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