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Hi new around here,just after some advice and help really ,having looked around the forum most of us are all in the same boat.
Anyhow i will just be breif too start the ex gf stopped me from seeing my 4 year old son so went and got legal advice and were going to mediation. My gripe is she always seems to leave it too last possible moment too reply too any letters ie solicitor letter replied on 14th day
Same with agreement too mediation first appoitment next month 15may and as she had left it as long as possible couldnt get mediation appointment for a month. Is there anything i can do or will i just have too put up with it , also once i have been too one meeting dont want too wait a month for next meeting because of her silly game.
Many thanks
Hi there and welcome
There's not a great deal you can do to be honest...once you are at the meeting try and get the next meeting booked and agreed before she leaves the building.
Good luck with the mediation.
Hi there,
I agree with NJ, Make sure the next meeting is booked before you leave, it does sound like she is playing the game a little.
GTTS
Many thanks.... Its a hard road us dads tread :dry:
It is a very hard road.
Take each step one at a time and choose your battles wisely, if you are getting into loggerheads over something, think about the final outcome and mainly the impact that the battling may have on your son.
GTTS
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