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Looks like my partner and I are expecting a third child. Not entirely planned let's say (and yes plans are afoot to make sure this cannot happen again).
For many couples this may be great news but I have long felt that our lives are now fairly settled and secure and while we have two great kids, I just don't know if we can cope with balancing a third child and the demands of work and making sure we give the two we have the time and attention they need. Plus being a dad to a teenager when in my sixties is bothering me. Other practical issues also a concern (eg money) but that isn't the biggest worry.
How have others coped with this?
Hi There,
I can see why your concerned, I'm sure I'd be the same in your boat.
That said as you say your life is settled and your happy with your family as it is I would imagine you are a good dad and will adapt to the change as it happens and in a few years will look back and wonder why you were worried.
I would say it's natural to be concerned about money, I remember being that way when my first was on the way let alone if it were my third.
I'm sure you will be fine.
Though air all your concerns as you go on the site and i'm sure we will be able to advise.
GTTS
I felt my family was complete when I had 2 children, and hadn't planned on a third. However, my wife (now ex) had, so a third was born and it still felt right. So, I suspect you will be the same as soon as you hold a new baby in your arms - all your concerns will melt away π
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