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So I will start from the beginning I was with my ex for four years when I entered the relationship she already had a child I see her as my daughter and I raised her to be. We got engaged and she got pregnant with my daughter. After as little as a couple of weeks after her Birth she didn't want to be with me and left me on my [censored] basically and I found out about stories of other guys blah blah blah... I have paid for them both with a mutual agreed amount of money.
After a while I found a new partner and moved town to start a new life in that time I have still paid for both my daughters but haven't seen them as regular as I could I know I should be better for them. Now thier mother won't even answer my contact and I really need her to sign saying I see and pay for my daughter. I want to see then and arrange something better but I have pushed thier mother to not talking to me what so ever now.
I feel horrible for not being there enough but I wanted to build a new life I have been so low I was destroyed when she ended it and I found out everything she had been doing.
She and her family bad mouth me on social media I stay away from it and now want to see my Daughters
Please advise me.
Hi
If you can't talk to her, then your next move is to attempt mediation to see if anything can be resolved without going to court. Try www.nfm.org.uk
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