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Hi guys,
Just found out that my wife is pregnant with our 1st. I am worried in case I mess up. Is this normal?
Thanks Dan
Dan
I'm 42, and have 4 (genuinely lovely) kids. The important thing to realise is that we all mess up, and that the kids end up ok anyway!
Best of luck, enjoy the ride.
..and get some sleep now, it will be in short supply for a while..
π
Elliot
Yeah definitely do all the socialising, DIY, hobbies, sport and have loads of sleep now! I became a dad last year at 32 and time is scarce. But I wouldn't change it for the world!!
You'll be great at it. Relax and enjoy fatherhood! It's great fun getting to know them! All the best, jc
Thanks for the support guys. Tried 2 find new Dad support groups & found here. Thanks again
Dan π
It definataly is mate,it was for me anyway,I had my first being 34 and was nervous as [censored],now im a stay at home Dad and love the challenges it brings.
Enjoy the ride as it's an eventful one... π D
Hey Dan
As everyone else has said enjoy it. Do not get too hung up on whether you are doing it "right". I know it is cliched, but time really does fly once you are a dad, so make the most of it.
spence
Congratulations!
What you are feeling is perfectly normal - becoming a parent for the first time is a big deal, your bound to be apprehensive. There are books on the subject, specially written for first time dads, you might find helpful and reassuring.
talking of books, i was given one christmas 'the bloke's guide to babies' which was quite funny reading before our daughter came along. it's by Jon Smith. maybe have a look on amazon?
Hi Dan
Congrates about the pregnancy - i became a dad for the first time at 35 and then again 16 months later. It's great fun dude.
Don't panic to much just take it in your stride and remember we are all here to help! π
Hi guys, thanks for all the book tips & support. My wife has her 1st scan on the 26th Jan.
Dan π
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