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Hi I am a farther of two girl`s who i love with all my heart but back in 2000 i split up with there mother i went to court to get to see my children but after all most 4 years i got told to pull out as my ex was not cooperating with the court it has been 12 years now since i have even seen my children ans as i was not marred to my Ex then i don`t have any right`s so i have been told . the court told me the right i have are Fatherly Right`s my Ex was sleeping with 4 men behind my back and one day she came home with one of them and she was gloating all over him in front of me and as i am a man that don`t hit women i did not know what to do the man she came home with seen i was blowing steem and he sed that he better go and with that my Ex turn and sed to him i will walk you to your car at this time his car was about 5 min`s away from my house so i turn around and sed no you will not you will walk him to the door so he left and then about two day`s latter she go up and turn`d to me and sed i don`t love you and i want you out of the house but the house was in my name so i sed no so i went out to carm down when i got back i found out that all her stuff and my children`s stuff had been taken out of my house then i found out from a Neighbor that my Ex got the police to help her move all her stuff and my children`s stuff from my house so i call`d the police and ask them why did thy come in to my house and move stuff from the house . the police turn`d and sed we did not we where there just in case i came back to the house when she was there but the night before i was out and i got a phone call from a friend saying that my Ex rang them up asking if i was there and my friend sed no i was out so she sed can you ask him to be at my friend`s flat on the Sunday as she was going to rig so i can speak to my children so my friend sed ok then i got a call from my friend saying that my Ex just rang them so i went to the flat of my friend`s flat and thy told me that she was going to ring on Sunday so i ask my friend if i can stop at there flat thy sed yes i stay`d there all day on the Sunday waiting for the phone call by 6 pm there was no call so i went home and then that is when i found out what she had dun i miss my girl`s like mad i just wish that i can see them but i know that will never happen .
Hi Craig and welcome
Have you had any contact at all with your children, and how old are they now?
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