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Hi all,
I have just registered on here and am looking for some advice. I make substantial payments to my ex partner on a voluntary basis. However I am reasonably convinved that the money I give to my expartner does not get spent on the children. How do i;
1. Find out how much of the money I provide gets spent on the kids
2. Take measures to ensure all the money i spend get spent on the kids
My ex partner is quite regularly using emotional blackmail to get more money out of me.... I need to find a way to stop it. Any advice welcome.
Thanks,
Welcome to Dadtalk - i'm not really sure on the answer but does this article help? http://www.dadtalk.co.uk/articles/child ... ptions.php
I know there are others that use this forum that should be able to help.
Matt
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