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HI everyone. Due to lack of knowledge regarding my daughters nursery development and progress. I contacted her nursery and was kindly given rights to meetings regarding my child. When my ex found this out. She has now requested to remove my child from that nursery completely. How or why could somebody do this? Simply because I wanted knowledge of our child. ( I am on the birth certificate and have a copy. And have access on a sunday. And went through mediation to get this ) please can somebody help me on what to do.
The nursery was quite correct in giving you the information as you have PR. Strictly speaking, your ex should at least inform you if she is changing the arrangements because that is part of what PR gives you. It may be worth trying to go back to mediation again to sort this out, it's probably not worth going to court over as chances are it won't achieve much.
Yes, they were allowing me to come in for regular meetings to see my daughters progress book. But as soon as my ex found this out she threatened to remove her. Just today ive actually found she has removed her and im devastated. All because their own father wanted information as she refuses me any. I was advised by the nursery to confront my ex about this and when I did her reply was " it isnt compulsory for her to go so leave me alone " im lost for words. I am truely devastated and disgusted by this situation. I am petrified of my ex as she holds all the cards and always has done. Why do some mothers treat fathers like this, I will never get. π My little girl has been taken out of an established nursery simply because I wanted the information she refuses to tell ever since her new partner moved in. She wont tell me a single thing. Even if she puts her in a new pre school I wont be told. I just know what to do anymore.
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