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hi,
my name is mark and i am just new here.
my partner and i seperated 3 months ago and things started off being civil. however now she is saying she doesnt ever want me to see her or my son again.
i am currently paying all i can afford for him as i am on a low income working full time.
she has told me it would be best for everyone if i just "fucked off" (her words) and never came back or tried to contact her or my son again.
i love my son more than anything and he is only two years old. i would never just leave as he means the world to me. this is really hurting me and i am unsure what to do. i am not going anywhere and i will fight my case through court until i see him.
can anyone offer any advice, or has anyone else been in this situation.
many thanks
mark
Hi Mark and welcome
Do think there is any chance that mediation could work? If so, that should be your first consideration. If not, then have a read of yoji's guide to representing yourself at the top of the legal section for guidance where you need to be going.
If you haven't already done so, start a file and keep a record of every conversation, email, text etc that happen, and all events etc - it's something you may need later on. Also, make sure you don't rise to anything she says - bear in mind that she may present anything you say or do to a court also, so don't give her any ammunition.
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