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hi there you might of read my other posts in other sections weseparated in june I not seen my 2 little ones since then I hae been served a non molestation order for asking to sort our marriage out and she has filed for divorce. I dont know what to do for some reason for all she has been this nasty I still love her and miss her I wish I didnt but I do is it just because I have not seen my kids we have been together 12 year married 6 have a boy 5 and a little girl 18 month the thought of a another man bringing them up destroys me even though I dont think she has anyone yet but Im dreading it how do I ove how do I get over watching my kids grow up with a new man in their lives help
it's never going to be easy - you need to concentrate on being the best dad you can, and concentrating all your energy into getting contact with them. I would suggest trying to go through a contact centre, partly because it may be easier to achieve this, but also because you won't have direct contact with your ex, which may make it easier on you.
Hi , I know how hard it is to imagen whats going to happen but please try to live for the now. Tell us what your plans are , are you going to court to get contact ?
im waiting for first court date which as I ay i scaring me coming face to face withh the woman I love but hate at minute been together since I was 20 now 32 feel so lost without her we have spoke and saw each other everyday for 12 year these 5 month have been so hard all i wanna do is hold her in my arms and make it all normal and be a family again with my kids giving them the family we had planned.
I am dreading court as I say just we could be civil then sort it ourselves instead of going to court and slagging each other off because no one will win
Read you blog. My only advice and I hope it helps is children are very clever and as long as you are a good Dad it is surprising how It will work out they will move the agenda in there own way .Just be the best you can .
Hopre It helps .
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