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Hello to everyone,
my wife is at home mom, my son is about going to be 6. Right now she does the pick up and take home and of course cooking job.
i always work from home, the time is very flexible. Just wondering the chance of getting 50/50.
Even tho I am not doing a lot of kids stuff right now, apart from playing with him and study together everyday. But personally I don’t see a reason why I can’t get half of his time or maybe 40%.
we 3 still all live together.
just need some advise.
big thanks
hi,
have you discussed any child care arrangements with your wife, what is her thoughts on 50/50? see if possible to make agreement with her, could sign a parenting plan. It's great that your job is very flexible, should make child care easier.
@bill337 obviously she mentioned it she wants son live with her. But I just feel that’s not fair, if after we divorce, I have only my son left really in my life. And if he doesn’t stay over nights with me, I don’t see point of life anymore.
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