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(@dadmod2)
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hi,

if i was in your position, i would not be happy with seeing my kids 2 sundays a month. am going back to court as every other weekend is not enough and the kids are asking for more time. but i understand your situation is volatile. but stills its selfish of your partner to make you see less of your child. you state that your ex constantly kicks off. do you take phone calls? better to leave it to whatsapp messages.

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(@lostinblac)
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it's a extremely tricky situation because of all the stuff that happend in the past with my ex and our daughter being taken with ss my partner Is always on edge because she doesnt want to risk it.
my daughter when I ask if shes ok with seeing me so little says she doesnt mind and its fine ect but I feel guilty. weve just had a newborm and got a 4 yo and it feels like if all the kickoff and the tension carrys on with my eldest visiting me and my partner we would of just broken up all this is from the past my ex is a nasty nutcase purposely goes out of her way to get involved it doesnt feel like you get my daughter feels like my ex is here to everything is so planned cant ring up unless a sunday between times ect so I'm in a tricky situation do I keep the peace with everyone by seeing her 2 sundays a month and overnight on holidays or do I argue with partner because I want more which in turns out 2 children at home get effected.

best thing is my other child is 8 and shes fully aware how bad it is with the mother because shes seem it and because my ex dumps her on everyone shes quite a tough child

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it's just so tricky I want a easy simple life after fighting social and court and almost loosing our daughter we litrally [censored] ourselves with everything and my ex is a risk who went against us then she made my eldest do a abe interview and say [censored] against me which almost made my daughter get adopted so my partner is beyond defensive

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