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Hi all
I have split from my ex over 18 months ago but not yet divorced, we don't have a great relationship and it is difficult trying to have a conversation with her. A few weeks ago we had another disagreement and now she wants to take my son out of the nursery that he is going as she said she no longer wants him to go there.
Her reasoning being she doesn't get on with my mum and she is the manager there so she no longer wants him to be going to that nursery, my problem with this is a few things one my son has been going there since he was 7 months and is now 27 months old and is settled and enjoys going there. He only goes one day a week as her mum has him the rest of the week also it's the only day in the week I have him as I pick him up from nursery, with him moving nursery he will be further away and I won't be able to get him and spend anytime with him.
I have told her I don't want him to change as there is no reason for it but she won't listen to me so in want to know if there is anything I can do to stop her from changing nurseries ESP as I have looked at the ofsted reports of both nurseries and have found that the one she wants to send him to is not as good as the one he is currently going to
Her main reason for doing this is she is trying to stop me and my family from seeing my son
Any help will be great fully appreciated
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