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I don't blame you for not trusting her. she made a major mess and now wants to work her way back in the house. let your guard down and things can change quickly. if she wants to know how they are doing she can contact school for information just like dads have to. arranging contact she can do that herself by contacting boys. you have no reason really to have contact with her at all unless to do with younger children
Many thanks mate , well I’ll be seeing her on Wednesday at the school meeting with the social worker . I will ask to be in another room as she is currently made a molestation order.
I am glad i came to this forum you guys give me hope .
It will look much better for you if you inform the people at meeting that she is subject to a non molestation order before it starts.
It may well be that meeting will still go ahead with both of you present and that non molestation order maybe put to one side .
I gather the idea of meeting is you all work together with childrens best interest at the front of your mind. meeting probably wont last long ..sounds like a child in need meeting if a social worker is there. the more you work together the quicker the meetings will be discontinued
I hope she doesn’t get custody of the children , she has put them through enough and they have seen certain things they should not have on her phone . The children exposed her (3 boys) the eldest refused to see what was on her phone . All 3 boys have been referred to mental health workers . My concern mainly is this child arrangement and occupation order. I under she had applied for the C100. Do I need to submit one myself although the children are in my care ? Or can I attend court and get the C100 to work in my favour?
All you got to do is put children 1st and don't run mum down. work with social services and keep them on side. let her do all the mud slinging. if she has put a c100 in and occupation order all you can do is wait until you see what comes of it. if things aren't going in her favour and social services have concerns then it will come to nothing. the longer it is left and children are happy and meeting all expectations the harder it will be for her
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