[Solved] Cafcass ( massive issue)

Thank You Yoda,
Thank you Mojo for you help,
I will keep you updated ,

We understand that it's a difficult choice for you and we will do all we can to advise and support you. Stay strong.

Thank you Mojo for your advice and support I so much appreciate it,

I had my second interview with the programme tutor after ad long few questions again,

I said I will respect the judge decision about what he found ,
And informed her that i didn't put pressure on my ex about leaving our son with my family for a short while and I didn't even have the intention to do so but sometimes we do things without meaning it and maybe I put pressure on her without me knowing as the judge found ,
And told her I am open to take the programme if she thinks it's right,
Explained that the judge found that I am a nice man as written at the end of his judgment and she said she knows that
After too many questions again from her she said I don't think there was any violence or abuse in your relationship maybe it was misscommunication between you and your ex and I don't think this ( Domestic abuse prepetator programme ) will benefit you they call it ( building better relation programmer ) as well ,
She said she will write to cafcass and tell them that ( I am motivated to take the programme and want to do anything for your son but you are not suitable for this programme) and I can recommend other programme to start to build the trust between you and your ex things like co parenting programme or somthing to teach you more about communications things like that but I can't see there was any violence on your situation and she actually said she beleives me that I didn't have the intention to put any pressure on my ex and to be suitable for this programme I should of done this with intention ,

I have a hearing end of this month

My question now what will be cafcass officer reaction ??
Will she make another recommendation to the court or will leave it to the judge to decide??

Judge said last hearing see if you are suitable or not first then I will decide if your suitable how the contact will be during the course and if you are not suitable I will make my decision about how the contact will be,
Even we can go to contested hearing Or final hearing ,

Thanks you so much in advance for mojo and yoda for having the time to advice me,

I just would worry too much about it, I think she has assessed you based on the facts, you made it clear you were open to the programme if she felt it was right for you. It sounds to me that you just don’t meet the criteria. The fact that she is going to recommend another programme is positive.

All the best

Do you mean ( I just wouldn't worry about it ??))
Or would worry about it ?????

Yes exactly it sounds like I don't meet the criteria and she said that I will not benefit from this programme ,
And to be honest this programme is nothing to do with me and it will delay things for so long ,

So hopefully this will make things positive for me and move things forward and not the other way round,

I hope next hearing judge will move contact forward and take positive step ,

As I am making it clear to everyone I am ready and open to make everything possible to be able to spend more time with my son as I wanted ,
So hopefully they will understand this .

It's just scary situation because I don't know what will cafcass and the judge will decide after me being not suitable for the programme ,

Hopefully good decision