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I would write and say that for the record, since you left, you have never entered the house and that any requests for property belonging to you had been made via text, which you have proof of. Further, that the requests for the return of your property have been largley ignored by their client.
I would also say that contact with the children is your priority and you understand that their client has been advised by them, that mediation isn't appropriate due to the nature of your relationship. Ask for confirmation of this, so that you can take the appropriate action to secure arrangements for contact.
You could point out that mediation is a requirement, before a court application can be made, and that as there has never been any history of domestic abuse, you are at a loss to understand their stance.
I would end by saying that you have liaised with your children's school concerning sports day and that they have no problem with your attendance. Ask that their client respects your right as a parent to attend such events and that she maintains a good distance between you and allows the children to have some interaction with you as is normal.
All the best
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