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hi i been split from my ex for 6 months she was cheating on me. she is internet dating well sort of. i have proof that she has guys going round the house for [censored] and only spoke to them on internet for that day. they come round at night once kids are in bed. to me i think she is putting herself and kids at risk as she not know these guys at all. i dont care about what she does or who or how many she has but i not want my kids to go through anything would social services see it the same way or is it just me cheers.
Hi,
As much as this isn't great, she is waiting until the children are in bed until the men come round, I know I would feel the same as you in your situation, but I don't think that social services would get involved as the men aren't being introduced to them.
I know they are in the house while your children are though which is your concern, I'm just not sure you can do anything about it.
Others on here may have some more ideas though.
Darren
Although I'm not sure what they could do I would still contact Social Services and share the concerns you have. How do you know this information about the internet & guys going over; what proof do you have? Would you ever consider applying for residency of the kids?
Is there any chance you can come to an agreement with your ex that you have your kids to stay with you so many nights per week and those are the nights she has men around?
As a matter of interest, how old are your children?
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