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I've just come off the phone tonight after speaking to CSA and have been mortified. I have been paying CSA for nearly the last 5 years, my youngest daughter will turn 19 on the 3rd of October 2013 and I was expecting payments to end soon just like they did when my eldest daughter turned 19. After a bitter divorce and losing virtually everything I had no other choice than go and live with my parents in a spare room. I had banked on the payments dropping off this year so have just put down a deposit on renting a 2 bedroom cottage of which I knew I could afford until I found about a seemingly new legislation that's come in.
My daughter stayed on at school but now that has finished, she has had excellent A level results but is undecided what her next steps are. She is thinking of taking a gap year before she applies to Universities, she also works part.time. Can anyone advise me as I have just joined this forum and I am in a desperate situation.
I've absolutely no idea what I'm going to do now! Help!!!
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