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Hi. Forgive me if this has been covered but I am new to this & seek advice.
My partner & I have long decided that it would be good for us & the kids (she has two girls, 19 & 15, we have a boy, 10) to move apart. I earn about 2200 net a month, she about 1300 net a month. Having agreed I'd pay 300 pcm & half of m'boys tennis costs (about 55 pcm), she now says that's not enough. Where do I stand? I don't want to keep my boy's Mum short but I feel that is a fair amount? Any thoughts?
We are moving on Monday to separate places. Thanks
Hi There,
The best way to see whether what you have offered is acceptable is to base it against what she would be awarded if she were to go through CSA/CMS, if you search online you will find a calculator you enter details from your pay slip and it will give you an amount.
GTTS
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