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Hi
No it wasn’t part of a divorce she contacted the child maintenance service.
Hi Bill
I think it must be cash as she’s still claiming child benefit, its a nightmare as he’s posted pictures over his instagram and Facebook about having good days at work. He’s even telling my younger son that he’s working all the time when they chat on the phone, i also think he’s living with his girlfriend at her parents place.
Hi Again,
The only thing that I can think of then is that he may be on some sort of training course (NVQ or similar).
Absolute mine field isn’t it!!!
All the best
Well the college term is now finished and he’s 20 so i will just stop the payment i guess.
hi,
i think you should write up a letter and post it to CMS, outlining your reasons for stopping payment. and if they have issues with that they can contact you.
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